Fostering in the Holiday Season
- Encourage
- 3 days ago
- 2 min read
As the holidays quickly approach, we start to feel the excitement of traditions, decorating, and gatherings among families and friends. For children in foster care, we must remember that it can bring fear, loneliness, and feelings of loss, as well as their biological families.
How can we ensure that children in foster care feel loved and comforted during the holidays, as they may be temporarily being cared for by foster parents, relatives, and away from their homes?
Here are several approaches to help ensure children in foster care feel loved, comforted, and included during the holiday season:
Acknowledge Their Feelings: Create space for children to express their emotions about being away from home. Validate feelings of sadness, loss, or anxiety, and let them know it’s okay to feel this way.
Maintain Traditions: Ask children about their favorite holiday traditions and try to incorporate them whenever possible. This could be a special meal, a particular decoration, or a family activity that has meaning to them.
Create New Memories: Foster parents and caregivers can introduce new traditions, inviting children to participate in decorating, baking, or other festive activities. This helps build a sense of belonging.
Encourage Family Connections: If safe and appropriate, help children connect with their biological families through phone calls, video chats, or sending cards and gifts.
Personalize Celebrations: Include the child’s cultural and religious background in holiday celebrations. This demonstrates respect for their identity and heritage.
Prepare in Advance: Let children know what to expect during the holidays—who will be present, what activities are planned, and any changes from previous years. This helps reduce anxiety.
Provide Support: Be attentive to signs of sadness or withdrawal, and offer extra comfort—whether through kind words, hugs, or simply spending quality time together.
Include Them in Giving: Involve children in acts of kindness, such as making cards or treats for others. Giving can foster a sense of purpose and community.
Collaborate with Caseworkers: Ensure open communication with caseworkers to address any specific needs or wishes the child may have during the holidays.
By approaching the holidays with sensitivity, understanding, and intentionality, foster parents and caregivers can help children in foster care feel seen, valued, and comforted, making the season a little brighter for them. Please know that your team at Encourage is always here to support you, pray for you, and we are forever grateful for what you do every day by opening your hearts and homes. Please know that you are making a positive impact and helping each child experience their worth in Christ.
About the Author
Heather Huebner
Director of Operations & Recruitment
As Director of Operations and Recruitment, I ensure our team is equipped to work effectively and efficiently to provide quality support and services to our foster families. My true passion is to engage and connect with families who have the heart to foster and walk alongside them throughout their journey! I encourage you to reach out to me with any questions you may have, together we can make lasting impacts!
